This is why my blood pressure is up today!

I really don't believe that this far along in my pregnancy that stress would cause me to lose this baby; however, I do think that enough of it could quite possibly send me into early labor, which is just as dangerous depending on how far along you are. That is part of the reason I have decided to de-stress some by venting about things that anger me here where I've stayed silent in the past! Or at least stayed silent to the cyberworld.

In the 6th grade I learned a valuable lesson about talking about people behind their back - from that point on I decided that anything I had to say about someone behind their back would be something that I was willing to say straight to their face as well - b/c inevitably it's always going to get back to that person anyway. And it's been a pretty good philosophy since the 6th grade. I think there are some people, though that need to go back to the 6th grade and try to learn again how to be adults!

No, I am not going to turn my site into a hateful, bashing site so I am not going to get into details - I just want to vent! To get things off my chest so I can breathe a little easier.

No matter who you are - no matter how nice you are to people - no matter if you do anything bad to people or never do anything bad to anyone - there is always going to be someone that doesn't like you. ALWAYS! And they may never even be able to give you a reason. This used to be something that really ate at me...but more and more over the years I've just been able to say "to hell with it!" and move on my merry way. Being pregnant it isn't as easy to do sadly & I'm sure it's just b/c of the hormones!!

It gets to me more when I'm pregnant when I hear that someone (and all of this is only related to one person - it's not like everyone I know is saying bad things about me - as far as I know!! LOL) is talking to others badly about me behind my back.

And honestly - who really does that anymore? If you don't like someone you just don't associate with that person - you don't continue your relationship with them and then talk about them every chance you get. Now, I also know you cannot always remove certain people from your life either. And if that's the case then you are cordial when you see them, nice and polite, but you still don't talk bad about them every chance you get. It's juvenile! It's not Christian-like! It's hurtful! It's petty! It's just plain RUDE!
  1. Awe.. I'm sorry. People like that are usually the ones to be pitied. They have the biggest problems within themselves. They are probably jealous of all you have going for you. I've always found that if I'm the bigger person and keep my behavior God-like then they are the ones who usually get what they deserve in the end.

  2. AMEN! Although, I've always been one to say anything I feel and do basically whatever I want, I've recently learned that I find more peace in not saying anything at all. No matter what. If I have any negative feelings towards someone, I'm better at just praying about it until it goes away because I have that "fighter attitude", so when I try to express my emotions to someone I tend to just get over worked and it ends up ugly. Also, I've learned that when I just give the silent treatment, it tends to be more effective than if I were to express to those people how I feel. Don't waste your breath on someone that isn't worth it! You have so much going for you Aunt Hanna, anyone who is talking bad about you is obviously jealous. Let them talk about you- its them who have to live with theirselves!

    I love you!


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